June 28, 2022

阿杰的‘激将法’

 

看看桌子上的蜡烛, 应该猜到我那时几岁了吧。。


小时候, 为了激发我向上, 我爸使用激将法来刺激我的。 可是他并不知道, 我会听进去不是因为他的激将法, 而是他温柔,心平气和的眼神。

小时候, 由于爸爸忙碌工作, 都很少讲我们,骂我们。 所以都是妈妈负责Micro-manage 我们几个小瓜。所以当我父亲会开口讲我时, 其实也说明了, 那件事情是有必要改掉的坏习惯。 而使用激将法就更加少次数了。

               简单来说, 父亲的激将法就是大声责备我的不好, 然后说我应该要如何改过。他在讲这些时, 语气是责备的, 大声的, 可是当你在看他的眼神的时候, 是温柔的, 心平气和的, 啊哈哈哈哈哈哈, 所以一看就很明显是激将法, 因为知道了, 所以激将法不管用。

尽管如此, 我还是有听进去, 有去改掉一些不好的坏习惯, 如果有些坏习惯是要父亲通过‘激将法’来管教的话, 应该就是错到要改了, 不然阿杰也不会使用很少拿出来用的‘激将法’。

燕儿老师说每个小孩都是独立的生命个体, 父母乖巧不代表孩子不会调皮。 而我之所以会听我父母的话, 都是因为他们都会耐心的和我讲道理, 讲到做到, 以德服人。 所以stubborn 的我自然会听他们的话, 因为虽然我很固执, 然是我服他们啊, 做错事也不会特地隐瞒, 也不害怕被责备, 因为他们会告诉我, 为何我不应该那样做。

我觉得我父母还蛮厉害管教孩子的, 既有留给我们尊严, 让我们服气, 也会让我们有冷静的空间。 That’s why , 那么stubborn的我会听他们的话, 不是只是在他们前面哦, 是因为是对的道理, 所以听进去。


One of my realisation while thinking about parenthood during the pregnancy 

June 23, 2022

Pregnancy OOTD

 Week 29 




Week 28 








Workout OOTD
Taken end of June  









Taken End of May . The occasion of this photo represents a new milestone for WS and Me










After swimming, feeling refreshed and spent some time to dress up myself. 






Pregnancy diary - Week 23 Going back to lovely home sweet home

 Week 23 Day- Back to Hometown trip


I have longed for going back to Terengganu. Terengganu is a beautiful place without much urban develoopment, but a lot of childhood memory.


I have also longed for travelling. I was worried if I dont travel now, I wont be able..or do not dare to travel during my third trimester. So I decided to go back during this long weekend. During the Agong's birthday.


Beautiful seaview at Dungun Terengganu. 





For a homesick person like me, Iwould definitely stop by the roadside for such breathtaking view.  Welcome to Terengganu! 



Nothing fancy, but plain natural beach here. 




and a lot of Malay food here. Nasi Minyak is one of the local delicacies that is commonly found only in East Coast area of Malaysia. Very very hard to find it in KL .


My breakfast kaki. 



My in-laws



A beautiful morning with hearty breakfast.  


Trust me, these are the food that I have longed for while in KL. so hard to find in KL. 


We had it here. 


While back in Kemaman.......



Mom has prepared this very yummy, tasty sesame soysauce chicken. So good I kept on adding rice! 


My mood was so good I kept taking photo of other dishes. Lovingly prepared by my mum! 





The public holiday, Agong's birthday. The morning view.. The morning routine ... 



Explore inCherating 







Just a lazy hot afternoon in Cherating. 



2ND jUNE 2022 . My lao gong is an awecosome cook!

5 Healthy habits that I practise during the pregnancy

 Somehow pregnancy makes me more aware of my health. I would go to 

KK(Klinik Kesihatan)

Specialist Hospital 

Hospital for Obs and Gyn 


On average 1 time per month. This has taken up on average 3-4 days of mornings in a month, which also affect a bit of my daily morning routine. 


Having to pay visit to health care centers for so many times in a month also makes me more health concious. I am so promptly to clear up my health to-do list, which I have ignored for sometime before pregnancy. (In other words, tend to spend more money on health, haahahah )


1.  Oral Care: Gurgle with mouth wash twice per day 

I gurgle with these mouth wash twice per day. I put them into the bathroom, and use it to gurgle during the shower time. 

 I actually have a pending Root Canal Treatment before pregnancy. I didn't actively go and follow up because it doesn't cause any pain to me. ..and I also I was busy with stuff. 


But I am so motivated to get it done and close case during pregnancy because I don't want this matter to matter my pregnancy journey. LOL 


Since I can't perform X-ray diagnosis ...even during the 2nd trimester, I can only delay 

1. Root Canal Treatment 

2. Wisdom tooth extraction 

to post delivery. 


In the meantime, my sister who is a dentist and also the dentist in my area also told me to gurgle diligently to prevent it from getting worse. 

After that,I decided that I will perform the following annually 

Oral care anual to do list 

1. Oral check up 

2. Scaling and polishing 

3. To maintain my current gurgle habit


2a. Stretch mark cream 


A lot of my friends , experienced or non-experienced also reminds me to apply strech mark cream daily. I only started to apply it diligently during the second trimester. Towards the end of 2nd trimester, I actually feel the belly itchiness 

Stretch mark cream

Left: I have had it before pregnancy 

Right:Given by my dearest June! It is an organic baby massage oil and it smells so pleasant. Like chocolate. 

Never would I thought I would care about my pregnancy to this extend, hahaha. Before pregnancy, I would always thought that this precaution is very extra, but as much as Idrink water, stay hydrated, you still need to apply stretch mark cream whether your belly got stretch mark or not. 


Browse more XHS (Xiao Hong Shu) , then you will know why. 




As mentioned, aside from staying hydrated by drinking plenty of water. I also realise my skin gets drier. Also I switch to this body moisturing cream. After one week of usage, it doesn't make my skin better also... It did my skin smell like fragrance. Period



2b. Cream for belly/butts itchiness 

On aver

My butts are itchy on and off during the 1st trimester. 

Went to TCM, and the Sin Seh recommend this, 皮炎平。 

Quite effective in curing the itchiness. 

I bought 3 tubes of this already. 

You can get it from your local Chinese Herbal/Pharmacy Shop also.  This is a very common ointment. 




Sorles Cream : To stop belly itchiness

A tube of the Sorles Cream cost around Rm 70 in Healthlane pharmacy , which I dont think I will use up. So the pharmacist recommended the small size in the white container to me. 

I bought it for Rm 18 in the Healthlane pharmacy (June 2022)

3. Swimming  

Argh...The best remedy. I didn't realise I would appreciate swimming so much ! 

I don't really like to go to pool swimming before this because I still have to change, and shower and after swimming....shower and bath again, which feel like so much steps for me. 


However, I can't longer stand the suffer like inflexibility in movement, and the belly's weight which affeect my daily movement I decided to go and stretch my muscles in the water. The water buoyancy makes all the stretching much easier! 


See, I am so delighted , so in the great mood during the swimming. I can chill my mind off and be able to think more productively. 

and more文艺, artsy, haha. 

Do you see the moon in the blue morning sky?  I get to relax and appreciate nature things by making a slight change in my daily routine. It feels so refreshing. Sometimes, it feels like a holiday to me. 

My POV 


And it only takes 30 mins, then straight away
Go home
Taking shower
Feeling refreshed 
and
Start my brand new day. 

I feel so refreshing, energised and anticipate for the next swimming again! 


Also enjoy obsess with my belly/lovely baby! 





4. Warm Footbath 

As my arms and thigh and calf will feel numb on and off, esp during /after sleeping . So I resort to this. 






5. Only during the pregnancy : Taking prenantal vitamins/supplements 

TBH, I still feel that this is very troublesome. 
Taking prenantal vitamins because I want to make sure that my baby is healthy. Period. 
So I am not going to continue this habit after delivery. 
Obviously, you can see that I bought from Watson. I use the not-so-big medicine box so that I can fit it into my small handbag. 

Having this medicine box literally makes my life more organised and I won't forget eating variety of different pills because I have sort it out every 5 days.