September 23, 2022

The love from Parents : The first ever Confinement Food & The Socks

即使当妈妈了, 还是被娇生惯养 💕💕💕


Story 1 

Mother's Love : The first ever confinement food 

Erm...I guess pics speak a thounsands words

My brother Heng told me this. 
He said Mami woke up in the middle of night to google for the confinement food recipe for me. 

Soo Ann  also emphasizes that mami spent a whole lot of time to prepare the confinement food. and the 木瓜什么什么汤(savoury traditional Chinese herbal soup one) for me.

And my siblings are the ones who helped in packing I guess. I remembered my mom said that they also put in the bowl so that I can drink the soup. 

Story 2 

Father's Love : The Socks   

I didn't know this story until my sister told me. 

The socks were Rm 40 for 2 pairs. (It's from Uniqlo anyway)

I mean you can buy it at some other place with much lower price and more quantity. for example 7 pairs at Rm 35. Why would you spend more? 

My sister said she actually advised Ah Jie and Mami a few thousand times no need to spend so much to buy socks one. However, my sister  paid for it in the end because Ah Jie insisted. 

I think Ah Jie might think that my body was very weak after giving birth to a baby hence should buy me better socks so that It can really keep me warm. 

Luckily I asked about this. I wouldn't know this if I didnt ask. You should have told me this mar~~ HaiYor...Luckily I did ASK. 

After I heard the story. I was like...It's okay I will pay for it. The socks on me. 

After the phone conversation with my sis. I went to my wardrobe, and looked at THE SOCKS。

So that I would know which 2 pairs are them. 

and before I knew this, I would care to wear socks ....but know...I will diligently wear it... and take good care of it. (Like I wont wear the socks out to keep it away from Covid, haahah).

I guess I would keep the socks even after it has holes , and seal it properly with Ikea zip lock bags. 


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September 22, 2022

Full time mom looking for job : What can you do?


What can you pursue as a full-time mom going to get a job ?

1.  Picking up new, beneficial skills

The below ones are more into the health and wellness related which fits my personality. After giving birth, I have new elevated awareness and increased priority on health and wellness related stuff like insurance, yoga, diet.



Learn some new skills which is beneficial to you. You can take a crash course, or It could also be you are taking 2-3 years to learn and gain experienced in order to be a professionally certified instructor , etc.


1.      Urut (The masseuse who Urut for me for the delivery was a full-time mommy before she ventured into full time masseuse. Her skills are so good she doesn’t need marketing herself. People go to her.)


2.    Gym one-to-one coach

3.      Yoga instructor (and there are so many different variant of Yoga Flying Yoga)

4.    Pilates instructor

5.    Art : Drawing , Music, Singing

6.    Cook :Selling your most popular dishes  : Overnight Oatmeal, Nasi Minyak, small scale catering,  cookies, Ang Ku Kueh , 满月礼盒

7.    Cooking school teacher: Teach people how to cook confinement meal , specialise into a certain type of cuisine like ..western cuisine, Japanese cuisine, Ramen, Pizza, etc

8.    Sewing

9.    Be a certified nutritionist

10.Be a sonographer (Just my personal preference, haha. I really wish that I could know the position of my baby during the ultrasound screening everytime, but I don’t know how to interpret it.)


11.English teacher (You can offer yourself to teach English if your English is above average, because in Malaysia , we speak broken English, so the demand to learn proper English is very high. )

12. Food Blogger / Mama blogger 

13. Video Edittor / Photoshop 




2.  Sales-related job

I guess you could easily name several of it before I elaborate.


A. Direct -sales (Amway, Herbal Life) It is about the wellness too.

-        For instance, I consume the calcium pill from Amway during my pregnancy.

-        Then, I also have F1 Formula drink from Herbal Life


B. Education system agent

C. Shopee/ Lazada online purchaser agent..

D. Thermomix mama

E. Slimming product, female nourishing products




September 20, 2022

Root Canal Treatment and Cost around KL and Selangor Area

 Endodontic/Root Canal treatment specialist Options:

1) Dentaville Dental Clinic

No. 7, Unit 1-6, Level 1, Nexus, Bangsar South City, Jalan Kerinchi, 59200 Kuala Lumpur, Wilayah Persekutuan Kuala Lumpur

017-665 6585  | 10am – 7pm, Closed on Sun 

RCT Molar : Rm 2.8 -3.5K 

Consultation : Rm 250 

2) Tan Endodontic Specialist KL jln ipoh

03-40449918  | Mon – Fri 9-6pm 

1st Visit – Rm 320 

Examination – 170 

Consultation – 90 

X-ray – 60 

RCT Molar : Rm 4140 

3) Jac Lam Endodontic Practice Damansara Heights


Dr Lam 

Consultation : Rm 250 

RCT : Rm 3-3.5K

4) Dental Clinic Avisienna

11 branches : Kajang (HQ) |  Putrajaya  |  Shah Alam |   Nilai | Kuantan & More  


Anterior RM900-RM1000 (include filling & xray)) 

Premolar RM1200 (include filling & xray) 

Molar RM1500-RM2000 (inlude filling , x ray & CBCT scan )

Consultation : Rm 50 

Rct molar Rm 1500-2000

RCT by  Specialist Rm 2000-3000

Denai Alam Specialist : Dr Harlina

September 15, 2022

New Born Baby Gift List idea 2022

 A few of my friends have already given me baby's gift during my third trimester. By that time, I am still not very sure what I need. Now, however, as a new born Mom for 14 days (yea, with 14 days of experience, staying in the confinement center) and everyday shop online to buy stuff for the new born baby. )

P/s: Still updating as a 20-day-mom  

I didn't arrange is based on the budget, However, you can roughly gauge it yourself when you buy it. 

Do always check out with the parents as they are the one going to use it. If they have already have the item, then your gift might not be practical too.   

Here are some of the suggested list 

1. For Baby 

2.For baby (3 months& above)

3. For Breastfeed mom

4. For Breastpump mom

5. For mom (in General)

Online baby shop: 


1. For Baby 

1. Ang Pao - the most practical one (and I can imagine the most of it will go to Diaper's purchase

2. Playmat  /Baby bouncer / Baby swing - The area where you place new born in the living room. 

Playmat is to place it on the floor when baby is bigger, can turn his/ber body, and can move around, As baby can turn his/her body, baby bouncer is not suitable  already. 

3. Baby's clothes : Taobao  | Nike  |  Happikiddo  - keywords :

Baby Clothes : KKBuy 

4. UV  Steriliser /Steam Steriliser - Make sure that the parents' house has sufficient space to put these gigantic electronic applicants.  

5. Milk Bottle (0-3 months | 3-6 months \ 6 -12months)    MAM   | He or She   
&  Bottle warmer 

6. Stroller / Car Seat / Baby Carrier 

7. Things to hang around baby cot 

8. Baby Snuggle Pillow :  Lazybear | V&W Baby Care 
1. 宝宝安抚巾 2. 豆豆被毯 3. 荞麦壳/乳胶枕头 4. 竹纤维餐具套装 5. 母婴包 (还可以变床🤩

a. Body wash 
b. Moisturiser 
c. Baby powder puff 

✅ Cetaphil
✅ Sebamed
✅ Aveeno
✅ Chomel
✅ Pigeon
✅ Suu Balm - I got the free sample from Suu Balm, it was nice after using it.

✅ Buds Organics

2. Gift for baby when they are 3-6 months 

You can also buy things for baby for their use @3-6 months. The reason being is their parents are mostly already have gotten the things for new born ready. 

1.Baby toy
2. Teether 
3. CLothes at 3-6 months 
4. Milk bottle at 3-6 months  OR  6-12 months 
5. Baby feeding set around 9 months 

3. For breastfeed mom 

1. Nursing Pillow  Rm 99 from Ikea  (Sept 2022)

2. Wingchair  for breastfeeding 

Wing Chair : a high-backed armchair with side pieces projecting from the back.

The simplified wing chair in my confinement center that I use quite frequently  

4. For breast pump mom 

1. Breast pump - make sure it is the wireless and handsfree one 

Wearable Breast pump Rm 408 (Sept 2022)

2. Breast pump hands free bra 

5. FOR MOM  (In General)

1. Skin care- like Bio Oil - to apply at the belly after the labour 

2. Belly Band - can use the hands-me-down one, as I wont use it after my belly goes back to the normal size 

3. Milk booster :Moeder /Lactation cookies / 永生通奶茶

4. Health supplement : 余仁生  |  永生 | 补腰精 Waist Tonic 

Chicken Essence / Pure Chicken Essence 

5. Fruit : Avocado, Kiwi, Strawberry, Banana, Orange  - New mom might have constipation problem, even if they don't eating fruits like this is healthy and it is unprocessed, naturally raw food, Easier to digest too. 

6. Other miscellaneous 

To buy/get list as a new parent 

1. 天猫精灵  : Shopee MY   |  Taobao China  - For me to look at the time when breastfeeding with both my hand, in this way,  I dont need to look at the phone 

2. Thermoflask : Mini size one with small drinking opening.  so that Mami can drink warm water while in the rush or in the car 

A big thermos water bottle  : So that Mami can refill from the big one when the small one is finished.